So I’ve been feeling like a dork because he recently mentioned that he might be getting an apartment soon.
Of course that makes me, overthinker to the max, automatically think about what-if-we-get-back-together-would-we-move-in-together-i-hope-he-doesn’t-live-somewhere-i-hate-or-that-is-inconvenient-for-me… etc.
He mentioned living out in some really inexpensive apartments near his parents’ house, which is almost 30 minutes away from where i live now and like 45 minutes/an hour away from where i go to school/work. So being the overthinker that I am, i have the sense that if he moves in to those apartments, he either doesn’t want a future with me anyway or he just didn’t think about it, but still our future will be severely complicated since I can’t move in with him until he finds a new place.
But I felt a lot less stupid because he texted me today to tell me he was looking at apartments. I asked where, and he said near the city, which is closer to my school. So maybe I’m not so pathetic after all :)
It’s nice to feel like he wants this too and he’s willing to compromise. I don’t want to be the one to make him do everything/sacrifice too much if we get back together.